My Review of “The Clash of Civilizations” by Samuel Huntington

 

Well, sometimes we read a book simply because every body does. Just like me with this one. I read it because this article said that it’s one of books in the reading list of students in top campuses like Harvard, Columbia, Princeton, etc. So I gave Huntington a try.

This book tells about fundamental civilizations globally. Interestingly, by just reading this book, we can be more acknowledged with role of each nation in this world and how they affect each other (which make me also want to learn again about maps and upgrade my geographical skill!! Ha ha >,<).

By following the stories, we can observe that the fundamental source of conflict in this new world will not be primarily ideological or primarily economic. The great divisions among humankind and the dominating source of conflict will be cultural (region, ethnic group, religious groups, all have distinct cultures at different levels of cultural heterogeneity). Or as R.R.Palmer said, “The wars of kings were over, the wars of people had begun”. The next world war, if there is one, will be a war between civilizations.

“The West and The Rest”. This polarization are also emerging yet I don’t really support this. Our people should not be manipulated and utilized by certain purpose of irresponsible party. Remember what happen with Iraq. “The struggle against American aggression, greed, plans, and policies will be counted as jihad and anybody who is killed on that path is a martyr”. “This is a war”, King Hussein of Jordan argued, “against all Arabs and all Muslims and not against Iraq alone”. The question is.. “is that really true??”. Or… Just like Western leaders who claim they are acting on behalf of “the world community”, the very phrase that become a euphemism to give legitimacy to the actions of them.. Do you really think that is right?? Or with what happened in Indonesia.. when Ahok is suspected to do… well, never mind -.- (I don’t wanna talk about it).

We should think more clearly in seeing diversities around us and be a part of civilization that embrace all the differences with an objective and a good way. That’s the least what I learned from this piece of Huntington. Go read by yourself.

In the middle of (very) bad times,

and I’m reading book about conflicts, instead

 

(For other reviews: https://www.goodreads.com/haniwww)

Also read: Review of “Lean In” by Sheryl Sandberg

Otot Baca dan #KelasMenengahNgehe

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Dapet langsung dari dan ditandatangan mas Siwo pas beliau ke Bandung.

 

Ceritanya aku baru beres baca buku Consumer 3000, yang sebenernya udah mulai dibaca dari November 2012. Mennn, 4 tahun yang lalu!! Buset >,< Orang bilang buku bisnis & marketing itu cepet banget outdate-nya, karena saking dinamisnya bidang ini. But for the sake of finish what I started, aku tetep pengen nyelesein ni buku. Ya kali kali masih ada insight yang relevan dan bermanfaat. Perasaan sih (yaelah, perasaan :p) beberapa tahun yang lalu tu aku udah baca sampe halaman 100-an lah, tapi entah kenapa berhenti tengah jalan. Dan tiba-tiba semalem, pas aku baca ulang, bener-bener dari awal lagi, I can finish this in only one sitting! Alias bisa baca sekali dan langsung selesai! (257 halaman). Eitss, bukan skimming dan fast reading juga ya. Aku tetep berusaha bacanya secara komprehensif. I read word by word, dan bener-bener berusaha paham. Caranya gimana? Adalah dengan ngebayangin kita harus ngajarin orang lain lagi tentang apa yang kita pelajari. Sehingga mau gak mau kita jadi berusaha untuk kitanya sendiri harus bener-bener ngerti dulu. Apalagi aku emang pengennya, tiap abis baca buku, sebisa mungkin nulis resume atau ulasannya. Biar kita gak cuma mengkonsumsi, tapi juga berpikir dan memproduksi sesuatu.

So, balik lagi ke judul, kenapa sekarang aku bisa one sitting reading, hmm.. aku pikir ini cukup membuktikan tentang yang disampaikan oleh para neuro-scientist tentang apa yang disebut “otot membaca”. Jadii.. menurut penelitian mereka, singkatnya, membaca itu memang bukan termasuk kemampuan alamiah manusia. Beda dengan melihat, bernafas, ngomong, itu semua terjadi lebih natural. Sedangkan membaca, itu kayak kita lagi cardio, yang kalo otot-ototnya mau jadi, ya berarti kita butuh banyak exercise. Dan karena reading habit aku sudah jauh lebih teratur (I read every single day min.1 hour), rasanya kayak hari ke hari ototnya jadi lebih kuat aja kalo mau sprint, baca buku tebel, essay panjang, jadi gak gampang capek dan cepet berhenti tengah jalan. And I think it is very useful, since reading is one of important skills that make me survive in life until now. So, I really recommend you to do also your routine exercise, no matter the duration. Just keep exercising. There are uncountable sources of knowledge out there waiting for us to learn, dan baca buku itu bagaimana pun beda dengan baca artikel, berita online, apalagi sekadar status teman di media sosial. Literasiiii… penting! #keukeuh X’D

Lalu.. Kelas menengah ngehe! Haha…

Sebenernya buku Customer 3000 ini fokus ke pembahasan tentang fenomena kelas menengah di Indonesia yang lagi tumbuh aja. Yang menariknya masyarakat (terutama netizen) nyatanya udah cukup punya pandangan sendiri juga tentang karakter dari si salah satu kelas ekonomi ini. Dan banyak dari mereka yang mencuitkan pendapatnya dengan hashtag #KelasMenengahNgehe.

Berikut adalah beberapa twit” “lucu” terkait #KelasMenengahNgehe:

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Sedikit banyak cuitan-cuitan di atas cukup menggambarkan tentang kondisi kelas menengah di Indonesia, yang memang mayoritas tinggal di perkotaan. Mereka adalah yang secara pendapatan tidak merasa lagi dirinya orang susah, kebutuhan primer sudah terpenuhi, sehingga gaya konsumsinya agak naik level, walaupun sebenarnya tetap berhitung untuk mendapatkan keuntungan paling tinggi dengan pengeluaran paling sedikit. High-value oriented, kalo di buku #C3000 dibilang. Dan kenapa mereka sangat menarik sampe harus dibahas khusus? Adalah karena jumlahnya yang kini dominan, market potensial yang sedang tumbuh subur (kalo mau bikin bisnis baru, menarget kelas ini, pasarnya bagus!), tapi dengan karakteristik yang khas, dan perannya juga besar untuk membawa bangsa menjadi suatu kekuatan ekonomi di dunia. Pendapatan $3000/tahun per kapita adalah ambang batas suatu negara memasuki fase baru dalam perkembangannya, sehingga buku ini diberi judul Consumer 3000. Dan mas Siwo (panggilan Pak Yuswohadi, sang penulis) dengan lembaga risetnya ternyata sudah mempelajari fenomena ini dari tahun 2010 lalu. Cukup menarik pembahasannya dengan contoh-contoh konkret yang memang beliau temui dalam kehidupan sehari-hari. Walaupun masih bisa diperbaharui secara ilmiah di sana-sini. Setidaknya berikut adalah poin-poin yang bisa didapat:

  1. Dengan GDP >$3000 sebenarnya dari beberapa tahun lalu Indonesia sudah tidak bisa lagi dikatakan masih negara berkembang.
  2. Kalo ngikutin ADB (Asia Development Bank) tahun 2005 sih, kelas menengah adalah yang pengeluaran per kapita-nya $2-20/hari.
  3. Tapii.. “It’s easier to rise from a low-income to a middle-income economy than it’s to jump from middle income to a high-income economy”. Dan faktor penting penyebabnya adalah: SDM & RnD
  4. Semoga Indonesia gak kena Middle Class Trap kayak Malaysia, yang mentok sebagai negara berpendapatan menengah. Beda dengan Korea Selatan yang akhirnya berhasil bertransformasi menjadi negara maju baru.
  5. Kelas menengah akan jadi tulang punggung ekonomi Indonesia karena kekuatan konsumsinya. Proyeksi di tahun 2020 kita bisa jadi urutan tertinggi ke-8 di dunia, dan di tahun 2030 posisi ke-4 stlh Jepang, Jerman, dan Rusia.
  6. Kemajuan Indonesia bisa menjadi kekuatan ekonomi besar dunia (yang diproyeksikan masuk 7 besar di tahun 2050) tidak lepas dari kebangkitan kelas menengah kita.
  7. Kunci kesuksesan Inggris memimpin dunia abad 18/19 pun adalah karena mereka, “The Great England Middle Class”.
  8. Bedanya kelas menengah Indonesia & Cina: di Cina, golongan middle of middle class-nya yang dominan, dan banyaknya orang desa, sedangkan Indonesia masih didominasi kelas menengah bawahnya, dan rata2 orang kota.
  9. Kelas menengah Cina ternyata menarik. Mereka jadi makin rakus dengan merk-merk terkenal, bahkan mulai menggeser Jepang sebagai pasar terbesar barang mewah di dunia, banyak disebut sebagai “Chinese Dream”.
  10. Cinta produk lokal jadi makin penting. Karena kalo konsumsi domestik terserap oleh industri & barang-barang impor, yang maju berkembang ya bukan kita, tapi mereka.
  11. Karakter kelas menengah masih sama, fokusnya bukan semata-mata harga (seperti kelas bawah) atau justru brand (kayak kelas atas), tapi lebih banyak di value.
  12. Kenapa kelas menengah penting: 1.Ada kelas wirausaha baru, 2.Karakter konsumennya, 3.Mengurangi kesenjangan, 4.Demand barang naik, 5.Punya kekuatan politik.
  13. Kelas menengah naik, OKB (Orang Kaya Baru) makin banyak. Bukan orang kaya beneran, tapi yang bergaya kaya. Mereka yang konsumsi barang-barang/jasa bukan lagi karena kebutuhan, tapi kadang cuma pengen.
  14. Karena ngerasanya “gak hidup susah lagi”, shopping exuberance merajalela, apa yang dibeli bermnfaat atau nggak bukan jadi isu utama mereka.
  15. Dengan makin umumnya kartu kredit, KPR dll, budaya konsumtif dan budaya ngutang makin tumbuh dan berbahaya, bisa bawa Indonesia ke krisis kayak di AS.
  16. Golongan yang lebih cerdas, akan merubah banking behavior-nya. Saat dana berlebih, tidak sekadar menabung, mereka akan mencoba berinvestasi lewat berbagai pilihan produk, seperti saham, reksadana, properti, emas, dll.
  17. Beberapa industri yang tumbuh subur = perbankan, kecantikan, kesehatan, MAL (dimana Jakarta juga adalah kota dengan mal terbanyak di dunia).
  18. Mereka sangat erat dengan narcism dan kebutuhan akan Social Experience.
  19. Peran sentral kelas menengah: 1.Sebagai konsumen, 2.Sebagai pelaku ekonomi, khususnya entrepreneur pencetak lapangan kerja, 3.Pelaku politik, mendorong demokrasi.
  20. Catatan untuk pemasar yang membidik pasar ini: make horizontal mobile marketing. Bukan cuma broadcast tapi raise engagement. Get permission, don’t interrupt.

Nah.. begitulah kira-kira tentang kelas menengah kita. Untuk yang tinggal di kota, pasti sangat menyadari eksistensi mereka di tengah-tengah kita. Yang jelas, buat aku pribadi sih, setelah baca buku ini dan buku-buku sejenis yang lain, manfaatnya adalah bisa maksa diri untuk lebih berkaca aja, bikin mawas diri biar lebih cerdas dalam mengelola mindset dan prioritas keuangan. Supaya gak jadi korban zaman, apalagi jadi beneran “ngehe”, sampe merelakan hidup susah demi gaya hidup (keliatan) mewah. Karena sesungguhnya yang penting bukanlah penampilan, tapi laporan keuangan sungguhan dan isi buku tabungan, ya nggak?? Dan cerdas berinvestasi! Duuh.. PR banget nih. Semangat!!!

 

Siang hari, sambil agak kelaparan di kantor,

tapi semoga makin pinter bedain keinginan dengan kebutuhan

#BookReview The Ocean At The End Of The Lane: When An Adult Is Just A Grown-Up Kid

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What impression do you get from the cover?

Yeay! A book for this month! (at the very verge of the month)

It’s so hard for finding reading time recently, so even finished reading the 180 pages short novel (not thick nor dense) feels like an accomplishment >,< #sad

Actually it was my first Neil Gaiman’s book, I’ve never read his work before. I think I heard his name quite a lot, but I didn’t sure what genre he usually write. So I didn’t expect much what the story would tells about.. fiction? mystery? drama? another world? or what? in the first chapters, I just let him surprise me…

But then I really surprised. The book was mix of them all, hahaha.. After read other people’s review, they just call it a “Gaiman’s genre”.

Opened with a middle-aged man (whose name is never mentioned – not even once) revisiting the place where he used to live with his parents and sister when he was seven. Then the place starts to bring back a strange sequence of memories as seen through the eyes of a young boy. So can u imagine? The narrator was the grown-up man, trying to tell haunting events through a kid’s perspective. Interesting.

Personally, besides the what-so-called fantasy part, it reminded me of things that children know and adults no longer understand and remember. We usually see things differently, so does how we do things. I remember when I was a kid, I confused seeing my mother and my sister crying.. I though that “hey, you’re adults.. you supposed to be mature enough to face anything in this world. You’re not me. I’m a kid, and only kids who allowed to whine and cry”. (but I didn’t say it directly to them, anyway). So many thoughts are changing.. but I always find that the way of thinking when we were kids are very exciting. I also can so relate with the boy character, the kid who lived in books more than he lived anywhere else. Even until now, I can say book is my sanctuary, the only place that can make me feel safe. People like us could drowned in the imaginary world, and even always observed surrounding and wondered how if the story that the book tell was really happened? Adults follow path, kids explore. And Im eager to capture all those states.

After all, I think it’s a kind of book that you have to read in one sitting. The creepy yet beautiful setting of Sussex, completed by British English that has specific sense of language, will bring you to your own exploration. And I guess I’ll be looking for another Gaiman’s after this.. Any idea?

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[BukuBaru] Filosofi Agile & Panduan Scrum

masih bau kertas, siap langsung disampul :3

So, ceritanya beberapa bulan lalu diminta jadi proof reader buat buku temen, sang master of #SCRUM, ceo-nya Agile Campus, yang juga front-end software developer, @RizkySyaiful. Kayaknya itu pas beberapa saat setelah aku nulis di blog “Scrum tu apaan sik?“, metode yang kayaknya jadi happening terutama karena disebutin di serial Silicon Valley-nya HBO. Awalnya sih sama Scrum-nya sendiri antara tertarik gak tertarik. Tapi kalo untuk jadi pembaca awal dari draft buku orang lain, itu rasanya menyenangkan, hehe.. Selain permintaan testimoni juga ditujukan untuk sekalian mewakili generasi Y yang dekat dengan dunia digital startup maupun ekosistem bisnis pada umumnya.

Hmm.. Setelah dibaca, ternyata buku ini bukan cuma ngomongin Scrum, horee.. tapi juga manajemen organisasi, sistem, tim, proyek dan segala unsur yang para entrepreneur mesti ngeh kalo pengen scale up. Dijelasin pula berdasarkan pengalaman-pengalaman secara jelas dan efektif. (Seefektif algoritma prohemer sekelas bro Rizky :p)

Dan akhirnya sekarang ni buku udah cetak & terbit untuk umum, yay! Cukup hepi juga liat hasilnya. Semoga bisa bawa manfaat buat orang-orang yang baca yaa.. Dan makasih juga buat bro Rizky yang udah jauh-jauh bawain buku fisiknya ini buat Hani =D

Jakarta, bulan puasa

Repost dari postingan di Path aku, hhe..

PS: Untuk pemesanan & pembelian, bisa kunjungi website rizkysyaiful.com 😉

FREE E-Book, Only for You

Hi, all!

It had been years since the last time i wrote here, haha.. Many things to do, and yea.. of course many things worth to share. But to manage the time to be effective is still a big homework for me. Anyway, I also write some posts in another blog, specifically in bahasa, while most of the contents are reshare information that (hopefully) will be useful for others, just to differentiate this web that I intend to be my own private sharing space which is also fully in (my-own-style-practical) English =p

Just like now, I didnt expect that I want to write today, but when I do, I can’t hold it.

If only you know, guys, I have a very long list of topics that I want to discuss about here, but perhaps those things will only truly written if I have a whole time of the world, really >,< Maybe I should lower my expectation of myself that I always have to write a long-comprehensive post, instead of make the short-shallow one. It only made me actually NEVER wrote, while at the same time, I keep posting on facebook page and tweeting! Why didnt I share here? The facebook posts and tweets might be drowned and disappeared, but blog posts will always remained and waited to be read by anyone (beside also as my own reminder). So.. here i am, trying to change my habit, exercising muscles again. Ready?

Fyuuh~ But since it is gonna be the “warming-up” post, so let’s get started by the fun one xD

As the title above, I wanna give u a free e-book. No, not the illegal one. It permitted to be shared directly from the author. And know what? This is a pictorial book for kids, yay! ^,^/ Haha… For those who know me personally, must have known that I’m a huge fan of kids book. And for those who not, well.. now I told u that I am. I have become the admirer of this kind of book since around 2008, since somebody introduced me to the magical things that this could create. I even ever illustrate a serie of pictorial kids book, and it got me deeper to its world. No, no, please.. don’t get me wrong. It doesnt mean that I’m kind of people that surrender self to be trapped in childhood. No. We may not always easily judge people by only single thing like that. I read all kind of books, from technical journal to philosophy, history to psychology, drama to science-fiction, comics to detective novels, you name it (except motivational books, maybe xP). But kids book has attracted me to find its particularity. If we learn it well, this will lead us to explore about civilization, neuro-science, and even a thing that i called social-engineering. You can see a huge difference from people who love reading since early age and not. How the imagination works and fantasy or fairytales from bed time stories affects human thinking, or even more, how this made us collectively to be a weak nation in this scientific competitive world. Sounds serious, eh? :p But it is.. Kids book is a serious stuff. We can discuss about it for days, if you don’t mind.. well, but i know it’s not the time, haha.. We will do it later. I promise.

Sooooo… what exactly am I trying to share? :))

A good friend of mine had made a simple book like seen below:

What ju think?

At the first sight i see it, I thought it was made by an illustrator and it was on sale. But after I read my friend’s story, I just knew that it was her own made picture, and she really learnt from zero to made it. Amazing! I remembered the first time I hold a pencil to write a sketch and how hard this could be.. moreover to create a good story that has an end. So, to appreciate her effort, and also to poison people to simply reading, i want to help to share it to my circle. And with the kindness of hers, you guys may also reshare it to anyone u wish. Just several pages.. yet still sweet for me.

Soooo.. where’s the book, Haneeee…??

Haha, okay, okay, I’ll stop blabbering and just give you the link here : http://www.4shared.com/office/cWQ7pO64ba/Emma_Shoes_Day.html

Hope you guys enjoy it as I am, and again, thanks to mba Nita Chandra for giving me a little push to write again, hihi..

Overall, such a quite short post, rite? :B See you next time, and.. have a nice day!

 

PS: I lost ALL my blog comments because unintendedly deleted along with the spams, huaaaa :'(( So please to leave any comments again just to adorn this quiet dark blog, hiks.

 

Sheryl Sandberg – Lean In (Part 3)

In the 2nd chapter: Sit at The Table, Sheryl slapped me with her blatant truth about psychological tendencies that woman have. Something that might seems obvious, but we often reluctant to admit (like the institutional obstacles are not enough -.-“)

As woman, we rarely think about deserving achievement, position, or even compliment. We often give lower scores to ourselves about anything, while men do the reverse. Eventhough we’re good at something, we usually haunted by insecurity that we’re not good enough, there’s still a lack of something, and so on. When somebody congratulates us for a good news that they heard, we feel that we already being fraudelent and fooled them. When a plan gone aint as we wish, we always search the bad side and drop into a great degree (compared to men, who even can take that so easily). And know what? To complete all those messy feelings, these mental problems for women could take very serious impact for a long time. Oh, well~

And yea.. anyway, I got a new term from this chapter, that is: Impostor syndrome – phenomenon of capable people being plagued by self-doubt. Coz, for example, even when a woman was offered an executive position in a company, while everybody thinks that she is the fittest person for it, she herself might think hundred times more than man to receive and say “yes, I’m ready”. Hufft~

I think everybody should know this. Be a woman and a leader is not easy. We really need to adjust our intellectual and emotional capacity. Me myself is gonna practice more each day.. to think slightly like a man.. just feel good about achievement, regardless to its imperfection.. give higher scores to myself and feel deserve about many great things.. to not so desperate when bad luck comes… courage to take risks and make any opportunities fit for us… enjoy the life, coz the ups and downs are unavoidable. Just let it flow, Hani.. just let it flow.. not go with the flow, but GROW with the flow.. coz your happiness is all depend on you.
Wish me tons of lucks. Cheers!

Lean In – Part 2

Finished the first chapter of the book and found that every sentence was essential. Its impossible for me to re-write it all here, rite? So please, grab the book and read it by yourself. Its enlightning for both men and women. By economic base, Sheryl did the numeric approach, explained facts by using data but still by sharing more about her own experience as well. Throwed me back to my childhood when i was almost always be top of the class, and be the leader for all, while many other girls also did. It proved that we all have the chance to be number one, not restricted to specified genre. But where are they when they grew up? How many women take the executive positions now? This chapter showed a lot, even in the international business circle! Stereotype threat we could say. When being ambitious for women seems negative, when our biology demands that we have children while during the same time our career demands maximum time investment, when our surrounding warns that we cant be committed to both our families and careers, when barrier is all we see to aspire, lets start to ask ourselves: What Would We Do If We Weren’t Afraid?

Lean In – Sheryl Sandberg (Part 1)

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I was considering about which book I should read first, Steve Jobs autobiography or this Sheryl Sandberg’s, then my choice goes to this one, because its page aint even reach 31% of the competitor, haha… 217 over 716.

Actually I just read the foreword of this “Lean In”, but be in love in an instant. Sheryl is such a role model for any women who want to pursue career in technology industry, moreover in this global world. She is one of the men behind Google’s success, started from it was still a startup company in early 2000, and how she through many barriers to reach the top (until become the COO of Facebook) is something that could encourage and empower women, even when we have a family and responsible to our child. I like the part when she said “I do not believe that there is one definition of success or happiness. Not all women want career, not all women want children. Not all women want both”. And it is really true. I saw many of my married women friends are fully being a housewifes, not passionate to make a career, yet they’re (seem) happy. But for women who have potential and high expectations of making goals in life, and also ambitious to make progress for the better world, take a role in top position could give us strong and powerful voice to speak out about our needs and concerns.

Women face too many complex challenges, not to mention our own internal obstacles. As a moslem, I’m not fully support the feminist manifesto or equality in any aspects, but as an individual (who also want to achieve many things in life), by reignite the revolution, I hope more people will understand about our desire, so that could help us to ease the burden that we-have-manage-all-aspects-at-home-while-other-activities-are-only-choices.

I hope my future husband read this book (hehe..) and become please to share more things, include to do more at home (be a real partner) then we can compromise the gap, while support each other, so we can be not only happy as a family, but also happy as a person 🙂

Read all my books review here >>

NB: Hey, i just knew something! If we want to make a comment in reading progress of Goodreads, we’re just allowed to write in no more than 420 characters! While when I’m just read 10 first pages of a book, I can even review (as you see above) multiple times of the limit. So I think post it on blog is a good option.

Anyway… The more I know about Sheryl, the more I adore. From workplace to home, college to world most respected company, anything. And the TIME magazine cover below is one of the most powerful pictures of her, so I print it and use it as a wall poster in my room. What do you think? 😀

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And readers, if you are also a women who lean in, you can join to LeanIn.org , a non-profit organization that Sheryl founded to empower all women to achieve their ambitions. Lets struggling together! *cheers* 😀

The Science of Luck – Bong Chandra

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Ok. I have to admit that this book is beyond my expectation. Quite good, because aint only based on theory, but he also relate it with his experience when facing the real condition. I like the part when he was doing a calculation of “unnecessary things”, but it could make us think more. For example, how many time wasted of doing this and that, a big amount if we use to do other things. He also sum up the effectivity of using English instead of bahasa, regards to the less time that we need to pronounce it, that if we do it for a long time, how many persons whom we can approach, either for business or anything. Like the other motivational books, it explain a lot about perspective and how to synchronize thought, body, and attitude. But off course, in this book Bong also promotes his seminars, business, and any classes that he provides. I cant imagine that he’s just a bit older than me. *sigh